Ito ang isa sa pinakamahirap na problema ng isang tao. Ang mamili. Dahil sa pagpili lalo na sa tao eh maaring may masaktan, may mga bagay din kasing hindi maiintindihan. Lalo na kapag pinapili ka?
Tapos kapag sa materyal na bagay naman lalo na kapag pareho mong paborito eh sobrang hirap mamili….
Tandaan mong kapag kinuha mo ang LOVE. Hindi nag iisa yan. May kasama yang
Pagmamahal
Ito ang una mong mapapansin kapag kinuha mo yang love package na yan. Dahil ito ang gusto mo kaya kinuha mo yung package.
Pagtitiwala
Kapag kinuha mo ang package ng Love. Kapag may pagmamahal may…
1. Let go of the assumption that the world is against you, or that you were born with a gray cloud over your head.
It is an assumption that has no basis in reason or science. Sometimes we pick up a flair for pessimism from a parent who made negative assumptions about the world somewhere along the line. Either way, the sooner you can attribute your pessimism to a unique set of circumstances rather than the state of the world itself, the easier it’ll be to change your perspective.
2. Understand that the past does not equal the future.
Just because you’ve experienced pain or disappointment in the past does not guarantee that what starts badly will end badly. Do not make a bad start turn into a self fulfilling prophecy for a bad ending.
3. See yourself as a cause, not an effect.
You don’t have to be a product or a victim of your circumstances. Stop thinking about what is happening to you and start thinking about what you can make happen. If you’re not happy with the way your life is now, set goals and move on. Use your past negative experiences to build character and make better decisions.
4. Use positive affirmations.
Write down short statements that remind you of what you’re trying to change about the way you see the world. Some affirmations to start with are:
- “Anything is possible.”
- “My circumstances do not create me, I create my circumstances.”
- “The only thing I can control is my attitude towards life.”
- “I always have a choice.”
- “I choose to live my positive side of life.”
5.Remember that life is short.
When you feel pessimism clouding your judgment or you start to feel down about the future, remind yourself that every minute counts, and any time spent brooding guarantees nothing but less time to enjoy whatever life might have to offer. At its core, pessimism is impractical because it causes you to spend time dwelling on things that haven’t happened yet and aren’t guaranteed to happen, and it prevents you from getting things done.
6. Be a balanced optimist.
Be a rational optimist who takes the good with the bad, in hopes of the good ultimately outweighing the bad, and with the understanding that being pessimistic about everything accomplishes nothing.
(via porsheohporshe)
(via porsheohporshe)
Heard this song on the radio and I realize that he’s one of the westlife dude. The song’s really nice. :>
Like only a woman can - Brian McFadden
Sometimes you just want to quit when things start hurting you. You want to leave everything as it is before the pain gets worse. But once you remember how much you’ve prayed, how much you really wanted it, and why you were fighting in the first place, hope comes back into your heart and maybe, just maybe, it is worth going this far.
Once upon a time, a girl met a boy. She liked him. He liked her too. They thought it was love. They just broke each other’s hearts and swore to themselves to never love again.
One day, the girl became a lady and the boy became a man.
Then, the lady and the man met, again. She liked him. He liked her too. They know they’re in-love. They never broke each other’s hearts again but instead, grew old happily in-love together.
~THE END~
Kaya mo namang mabuhay ng wala siya, pero gagawa at gagawa ka ng paraan makasama lang siya kasi kung papapiliin ka, mas gusto mong makasama siya kesa ang wala siya sa buhay mo.
Paminsan talaga, hindi mo kayang i-explain sa ibang tao kung gaano ka-special yung certain person na ‘yun sa’yo. Basta lang alam ng puso mo na yun ang lugar niya sa buhay mo, kuntento ka na dun. Masaya ka nang alam mo sa sarili mong may espesyal kang tao sa buhay mo.
Ang weird din talaga sa pakiramdam na kung kailan di ka na nag-eexpect, dun pa mag-eeffort nang sobra ang isang tao.
